Sharing Christ one-to-one
Some people say we should try and share the gospel with the international student as soon as possible, challenging him or her to make a decision. Others say we should first build a relationship and then communicate the gospel message. There is, however a "middle ground." Many international students just want a basic understanding of Christianity. You might have a friend in this category-someone you recently met who has little or no knowledge of Jesus. Even though you have not had the time to build much of a relationship, he would still appreciate a brief, non-pushy explanation of what the Christian message is about. With someone like this, you can share the gospel simply to provide the basic understanding. There will be opportunities later to challenge your friend to faith.
Or you might have an international friend who has been exposed to the Christian faith and has a positive understanding of Jesus. With someone like this, you will want to share the gospel and provide an opportunity for your friend to receive Christ.
Turning the conversation to Christ
- Determine your friend's thoughts basic attitude toward Christianity. If there is interest, offer a short explanation of the basic message.
- Then ask, "What do you think of what I just shared? Do you believe that God exists? Is He real? Unreal? Are you not sure?"
- If your friend is not sure that God exists, simply offer opportunities to learn more (e.g., Bible studies, literature, further discussions).
- If your friend believes God is real, explore his understanding of Christ and His death on our behalf. You may or may not end with a challenge to faith.
- Take time to listen to your friend's concerns related to the gospel. This will allow you to effectively address the genuine barriers.
Communicating the gospel
- Use bilingual literature whenever possible.
- Use a tool like "The Four Spiritual Laws."
- Also take opportunities to share gospel truth directly from the Bible.
- Clarify points which might need more explanation for a particular culture.
- Share your personal testimony.
Answering questions
- Defer questions (especially on peripheral issues) that arise in the middle of a basic gospel presentation by saying something like this: "Maybe it would be better if I could finish this overview, and then answer your question. My answer might make more sense then."
- Turn questions into opportunities for real communication by asking your friend to explain his thoughts behind the questions. Rephrase or restate his questions for clearer understanding. Ask him questions about what you have shared.
- When you are not sure how to answer a question, be honest and say, "I don't think I can answer that very well right now. But I can look something up on it and get back to you." If your friend is genuinely interested, set up another appointment for further discussion.